WAY OF FAITH

Have you ever thought how ironic it is that we all find it easy to act in 'faith' in our daily activities but find it difficult to speak in faith when it comes to important things.




Recently, I watched an episode of Total Wipeout USA and the first thing that came to me was how people can put themselves through anything because of money. However, what got my attention and got me thinking in this line was a particular guy that shouted at the anchor to sign the check even before he started. Of course, he sounded 'crazy' asking them to sign the check before he even started! At every stage he went through, he kept shouting for them to sign the check. Funny enough, through the preliminary stages, he was not the best but that did not deter him as he continued to shout loudly "Sign the check!" I have a feeling that it was FAITH speaking because he won!




It is simple faith that makes you trust that the bed you sleep on, or the chair you sit on to carry your weight and not make you fall. 

It is faith you display when you ride in that car, get on the bus, train or plane not knowing if the engine will fail you or not.

We trust bridges to carry us through to the other end but don't have faith in God to carry us through the storm.

We trust books and manuals to direct us but don't trust the Holy Word to lead us through our darkness.

However, when it comes to things that really matter, like talking to God, speaking to situations, healing, many of us falter and doubt our faith.




One question that constant plagued me was this "If it is so easy to act in faith in our daily activities, why then do we find it difficult to bring up our faith in things that matter most?"




The answer that came to me was very simple - We have an enemy. Our enemy knows exactly what our faith in the Almighty will do to him. He then enlarges our problems and makes any divine solution seem illogical and unreasonable.




Every time we allow ourselves to doubt God, His power, His love, His plan, we allow the enemy to win a trophy and you can be sure that he loves collecting them.




After this realisation, I made a decision and will keep praying for grace to stand by it - "I will not allow the enemy to gather my trophies. I will believe, trust and have FAITH in God who makes all things perfect in His time" 




You too can make that decision today to live in faith and make a change.




Have a FAITH-filled week.

Marriage vs Wedding

Just this past Friday my Coach Sam Obafemi and his Olori celebrated their Marriage Anniversary. Now I know that sounds odd, but like I said to him, his was not a wedding anniversary as is widely known, but a Marriage anniversary.

I might not be an authority on this subject, but I have learned quite early in life that there is a great difference between a Marriage and wedding. It is quite unfortunate however that many people concentrate on the wedding (temporal and short) part than on the marriage part of the whole deal. The wedding and its affairs last for just a few hours in a single day and after that, it is expected that the marriage part should start playing.

The success of any marriage depends on its foundation just like any building and just as builders and masons concentrate on their foundations before raising any building, so also great attention should be paid to the foundation of a marriage if it would ever work.

Most people will say the foundation of any marriage is God and I would agree with you to an extent, but that is not all! Will cement alone suffice to make a good foundation? I think not. There are other components that need to be brought to the mixture and the cement will hold them together for you. It is therefore your sole responsibility to bring together those necessary components and let the cement do the ‘holding’.

As much as the ‘God factor’ is very essential, you and I have a great responsibility – to deliberately make our marriages work. God will NOT come down to help you with your duties in the marriage because that is entirely your work. Marriage is about friendship, partnership and fellowship and it is everybody’s responsibility to make sure this works. It has never been easy and I do not entertain the illusion that it will ever be easy, but one thing I know is that, with determination and hard work it is possible.

I might not be married, but I know it does not hurt to learn these lessons early. Let us learn as much as we can NOW so that we can apply them when the time comes.

Thank God for people we can learn from, thank God for model marriages, thank God for ours that will work.

Have a great planning week ahead.

The Prayer of Abraham: The Great Arbiter

Everybody in life has a gift and it takes personal effort and desire to discover it. One of the greatest gifts of time is arbitration. There has always been the need for someone that can stand in the gap, but over the years, few have been found.

One man that had this great gift in Bible times and used it greatly was Abraham. As much as he is mostly known as our Father of Faith, he was a great arbiter and diplomat in his time and was referred to even after his time.

Imagine God calling Abraham to the negotiating table as he was looking at the extreme wickedness of Sodom and Gomorrah. Because of the gravity of their iniquities, he decided to pour out judgment in its full measure upon them; But guess what, he consulted Abraham first: “Shall I hide from Abraham what I am doing?” (Genesis 18:17)

Abraham in his entire righteous walk should have supported God’s well deserved judgment upon the two cities but of course, Lot and his family lived in Sodom and as a good uncle (though wronged) he did not want them destroyed. He could have asked God for the deliverance of his nephew and his family from the judgment, but the compassion in him moved his to ask God for ANY righteous that might be in the land that would ultimately perish with the wicked.

Abraham’s negotiated intercession for Sodom and Gomorrah definitely qualifies as one of the great prayers of the Bible. This is one prayer that has been recorded for us where we get the full gist of the discussion between God and man (Abraham).

In the first place, Abraham was aware of God’s just nature and he used it to his advantage. He said: “Would You also destroy the righteous with the wicked?” (Genesis 18:23). Abraham knew God and His character because of his intimate relationship with God, and the more intimate we are with God, the more we get to know his qualities and attributes and incorporate them into our prayers.

 One thing caught my attention here - At no point did Abraham doubt that God would disregard his opinion. He confidently made his case for ANY righteous in the land. If we can ride on our knowledge of God and His character, we will be able to build on our faith and call upon His mercy, patience, loving-kindness, faithfulness and greatness.

Another striking thing here is that Abraham was persistent. He started by negotiating for fifty righteous people and God agreed “If I find in Sodom fifty righteous within the city, then I will spare the whole place on their account”. I can imagine the wheels turning in Abraham’s head trying to calculate the number of righteous people he knew in Sodom only for him to discover that they would not be up to fifty. He proceeded to plead for forty-five, forty, thirty, twenty, and finally ten and the Lord answered him “I will not destroy it on account of the ten”.

This dialogue goes a long way to show us the heart of Abraham and how serious he was about his desire/request. Our persistence and perseverance in the place of prayer is a key indicator on the success of our lives and our submission to God’s will and purpose.

Come to think of it, God moved Abraham to negotiate for Sodom and Gomorrah. Why else would he have discussed with Abraham before meting out the punishment He had already planned? Sometimes God places on us a burden to pray for somebody and we most times take it for granted or ignore it altogether. Imagine if Abraham had told God he wanted to think about the situation or was too busy and would talk about it later. What would have happened then? Whenever we feel a prayer “burden”, God is moving us to take action and plead on someone’s behalf.

God has always searched for someone to stand in the gap. He found someone like that in Abraham, but over the years, there has been a cry “And I sought for a man among them, that should make the hedge, and stand in the gap before me for the land, that I should not destroy it; but I found none” (Ezekiel 22:30). What sad words coming from the LORD.

The truth remains that there is judgment to be poured out on individuals, families, communities, nations and God is looking for someone to plead on their behalf, to negotiate for their salvation because deep down “The Lord of the promise is not slow, as some deem slowness, but is long-suffering toward us, not having purposed any to perish, but all to come to repentance”. (2 Peter 3:9)

I can almost hear someone asking that "did not Christ die for that reason, that through His Blood there might be salvation?" But of what use is the blood if it has not been appropriated? After all, one has to accept the presence of the Blood, its potency and its possibilities before it can work in ones life.

Can you and I be found standing in the gap today even if it is just for one to acknowledge the Blood? How would you respond if God decided to tell you about every judgment He is about to pour out? Can our prayers be reckoned with in heaven?

Come Back

I apologize to all readers of this blog and all followers for my prolonged absence.

It has been a challenging period that I had to do a lot of thinking and heart searching.

Though it has not been easy, I thank God that He has seen me through and I am here again today.

To all those that asked of me, spoke to me and encouraged me, I pray God’s blessings upon you and ask that you find someone to stand by you in your time of need.

I would like to start with a series of my thoughts on prayer and some mighty prayers made by exceptional men in the Bible.

Watch out for my thoughts on Abraham the great Arbiter of times. These thoughts are not mine alone, but have been accumulated through my learning period. You are welcome to share your thoughts on this blog too.

God bless you.